Living - and using computers - means you are exposed to risks, and if you are free enough, it is your possibility and responsibility to evaluate these risks and act accordingly.
When Qubes claims to be “reasonably secure”, this is no promise to be a secure system, in the sense of “absolutely secure”. Instead, as the documentation clearly shows, there are benefits to this architecture, but there are also drawbacks and limitations, like with any other system.
As a user, you have certain needs and are faced with a certain threat model, and you simply have to - and if you are not working in a corporate environment are able to - decide, based on available information, whether a certain system is suitable for your specific requirements.
So, if your main concern is to protect yourself from the general kind of hackers, Qubes may be the best alternative available today, but if your main concern is to get a backdoor-free system, you should probably look for something else, like e.g. OpenBSD, SINA Workstation or OIpenVMS. It’s simply your choice, and you have to live with the consequences.
But in any case, if you move from one alternative to another, make sure that the new one is better at mitigating your risks. If you decide to drink ten beers, get into your car, drive, and cause a car crash, then probably you made a wrong decision. On the other hand, if you decide instead to drink the same amount of coffee and get a heart attack, it was also your decision, and you have to bear the consequences. Anyhow, whatever you do, life is not without risks, and the art is to find that mix which is best for you - you and only you can decide that.