Can’t get the QubesOS-contrib qubes-tunnel to work in 4.2

I have read @stumpi old thread about qubes-tunnels
and i’ve read all other viable sugestions i think.
Still I have no luck getting my vpn to work
repeated output of journalctl -u qubes-tunnel:

Nov 15 10:53:00 vpn-mrf qtunnel-setup[934]: 2023-11-15 10:53:00 WARNING: you are using user/group/chroot/setcon without persist-tun – this ma>
Nov 15 10:53:00 vpn-mrf qtunnel-setup[934]: 2023-11-15 10:53:00 NOTE: the current --script-security setting may allow this configuration to ca>
Nov 15 10:53:00 vpn-mrf qtunnel-setup[934]: 2023-11-15 10:53:00 TCP/UDP: Preserving recently used remote address: [AF_INET]9.9.9.9:1194
Nov 15 10:53:00 vpn-mrf qtunnel-setup[934]: 2023-11-15 10:53:00 Socket Buffers: R=[212992->212992] S=[212992->212992]
Nov 15 10:53:00 vpn-mrf qtunnel-setup[934]: 2023-11-15 10:53:00 UDPv4 link local: (not bound)
Nov 15 10:53:00 vpn-mrf qtunnel-setup[934]: 2023-11-15 10:53:00 UDPv4 link remote: [AF_INET]9.9.9.9:1194
Nov 15 10:53:42 vpn-mrf qtunnel-setup[934]: 2023-11-15 10:53:42 [UNDEF] Inactivity timeout (–ping-restart), restarting
Nov 15 10:53:42 vpn-mrf qtunnel-setup[934]: 2023-11-15 10:53:42 SIGUSR1[soft,ping-restart] received, process restarting
Nov 15 10:53:42 vpn-mrf qtunnel-setup[934]: 2023-11-15 10:53:42 Restart pause, 30 second(s)

yes the vpn is working on my “safe” laptop

Qubes 4.2 switched to nftables and qubes-tunnel is not yet updated to support this change.
Try this implementation instead:

:pray: