Hi,
Maybe it’s worth giving this approach a try:
Fom’s giant list of Qubes OS workarounds, tweaks and shenanigans - #8 by Fom
I wrote it back for fedora 36, but it worked for me in 38 too.
If I had to guess, I’d assume you’re running into issues others aren’t because your using a debian qube, but that’s a complete guess.