Setup OpenBSD Qube with usb passthrough, audio and 1920x1080 resolution

I more or less followed this and have an OpenBSD 7.x qube running on Qubes 4.2. With ‘machine gop 24’ it uses most of the screen on my Framework 13 laptop. However there is one show-stopper: when I suspend the qubes laptop and resume, the OpenBSD qube is dead; see my other post OpenBSD HVM qube frozen on resume from suspend.