New QubesOs wannabe user, please advice

Seriously? Your current daily driver can’t boot the Qubes OS installer ISO? You’re kidding…

You’re either daily-driving an Apple Silicon machine, or a 32-bit CPU from the 90’s…

The HAP bit, is exactly what it sounds like: a bit. It’s a switch that can be turned on and off. If you want it on, you turn it on. If you want it off, you turn it off.

Here are some guides for you:

https://forum.qubes-os.org/t/tor-vpn-reflections-on-popular-advice/10783

What do you mean by this? Can you be a little more specific?