How use debian bookworm in qubes 4.1?

Run the following before full-upgrade:

apt-mark hold qubes-core-agent
apt-mark hold qubes-core-agent-networking
apt-mark hold qubes-gui-agent

Alternatively I also found this solution: Kali does not upgrade - held broken packages? - #17 by trizzo

You could also try installing dummy-dependency (Debian Packages - Kicksecure)

It’s a common problem, multiple answers have been posted around the forum, just search a bit if these don’t work.