How to let qubes in sleep mode

The only available similar option is suspend option which let the pc still “on”.

Could you clarify what you want to achieve exactly?

Do you mean you want to suspend your Qubes OS system or a single qube?

suspending/sleeping whole system doesnt work for me either.

No the whole system even the machine just like windows.

Does your computer support S3 sleep and not only suspend to idle?