Hey!
I stepped into Qubes OS to use it as a daily driver after I became so angry with Apple’s (and Big Tech as a whole) telemetry.
After 2 weeks of intensive research, I got used to the system and could fix all the issues I was having (like webcam, screensharing, pulseaudio betraying me, weird full disk errors, installing things persistently into TemplateVMs like python libraries, etc…). But I must say that those 2 weeks have been ultra-frustrating.
For anyone new to Qubes OS, just try to fight and resist the initial experience. After you get the issues solved, this OS is wonderful.
I also have to say that, because of how I am, I MUST configure my VMs to speed up my daily tasks. If I feel slow and/or doing tons of extra steps to carry on the tasks that I did previously in my last OS (macOS), I will end up surrendering and going back.
So, I have been configuring my machine since then, and, although sometimes it tires me up so much because I still have a lot of things to be done, I then remember how it was working and living a month and half ago in macOS and now I notice all the UX upgrades I have set up.
I no longer worry about having my Parallels VMs dirty because of the TemplateVMs. I can do things faster than when I was a macOS user.
And yeah, I might not have the fancy animations, crazy graphical interfaces that masturbate my brain and keeps me hooked to virtually-given dopamine, but now I really can focus on things that need to be done.
So yeah, the first 2 weeks / 1 month is an absolute hell. But after all the pain, a heaven is there waiting for you.
Also, after all the initial setup, I know that once I step into my Qubes OS computer I am something near to anonymous in Internet (because I don’t believe in full anonimity) and have a reasonable privacy.
This lowered my stress levels because I HATE being tracked online, and I am pretty sure this contributed a lot into getting used to Qubes OS, because I felt safe while using it.
Not like macOS, where I have to constantly worry about expressing political opinions, what videos or photos I tend to view more than once (and therefore the algorithm knows me a little better and knows with ads has to show me so I can spend money on things I don’t need or which videos can throw at me to keep me hooked).
Disposable VMs for Internet Browsing are a great thing.
I had to study a little of how linux works to make my life easier and spend a good time reading the Qubes OS documentation, so I can make things like file transfers between devices connected to my WiFi.
Some things are a little more complex to carry on than on macOS or Windows, but after I knew how to do this things in Qubes OS, the convenience that macOS or Windows provide lost its value.
I take notes of all of my commands, and if I think that something requires a lot of steps in bash, I just create a bash script and voila, automated.
TLDR; 2 weeks of big frustration solving issues like wecam, screensharing, templatevm configs, etc… and other 2 weeks to automate and get things done quickly in Qubes OS. Now going back to other OS would feel like losing godly powers and become a mere mortal again xd