Hi Again @Insurgo
Yes, I am completely aware that I would have to share the passphrases in order for the shipping option to work. While not ideal of course, I think it is the best of the available options.
Lets break this down. Of the 3 possibilities (1.Trying to upgrade on my own, 2. Staying on 4.0 that the laptop shipped with, or 3. Sending it back to you with all necessary passphrases/secrets included) I genuinely feel option 3 poses the least risk. You are obviously trustworthy and while there is always the possibily of interception or compromise coming from the shipping part of the process, the likelihood of that is MUCH lower than the risk I would be taking by trying (and most probably failing completely) option 1 to perform the upgrade myself, and option 2 is already running a high risk as we speak, since things like whonix have already marked 4.0 as obsolete.
As proposed in my last comment, if you believe there is a “dumbed-down” guide releasing soon, I am happy to wait and test with that, but if it is going to be a collaborative project between yourself and members here, and encompasing everything from HEADS, to resealing to backing up, installing and upgrading Qubes, that may take substantial time to write. I guess a potential 4th option would be inquiring if you buy back previously shipped machines (obviously I wouldnt get the price I paid back, but would just want to add whatever extra amount was necessary to essentially trade it in for a new one that ships with 4.1 already installed) These options definitely are out of the ordinary, but I am just trying to be creative in finding a feasible solution to the problem that works for, and is within the capabilities of, everyone
It turns out someone seems to have taken a picture of me attempting to perform the upgrade. I have included it below.