Standalone debian based Qrexec agent fail suddenly

I have some VMs that are debian 10 based which i upgraded to Debian 11 ( bullseye ) and suddenly it will stop starting the vm. I get a fail to connect to qrexec agent

It directs me to the log file but all I can seem to find is saying Failed to start Networkmanager-wait-online.service seems to be disabled when I upgrade the system.

Setting that to enabled just tells me it cant connect to qrexec daemon
What am I doing wrong here ? Why does upgrading from 10 to 11 causes this ? It seems like i constantly run into this when trying to upgrade a vm.