Hi user8168
From my point of view, you are not annoying … you simply have an issue with the installer and asks for suggestions/recommendation. 
It’s unclear to me, if you tried the 4.3RC1 – I have a Lenovo ThinkPad T14 Gen 3[1] with a Ryzen™ 5 PRO 6650U and AMD Radeon™ 660M GPU and with Qubes OS 4.1 and Qubes OS 4.2, it behaved similar to what you describe.
At some point I started testing the weekly builds … and in May it got to the point that I could actually install a weekly build on it.
I still have issues with the WiFi (according to lspci it should be a Qualcomm QCNFA765) so I resort to a USB dongle, when I need network connectivity. :-/
On that basis, I would suggest that you try the Qubes OS 4.3RC1 and share how it works.