Only cubes as boot option on boot

You mean from Qubes OS GRUB menu?
By default only Qubes OS is present in your GRUB config. If you want to add your other OS to the Qubes OS GRUB menu then you need to do it manually.
Or you can use UEFI to boot your OS from another drive instead of using Qubes OS GRUB menu.

I think black/white is on UEFI systems and colored is on Legacy BIOS systems. Or was it the other way around? In any case it shouldn’t matter.